Do you own a successful organization, but want your organization to run itself successfully without you being there all the time?
Do you want quality time and quality communication with your family; your wife, your husband, your children?
Do you wish to enjoy life, have a huge financial reserve and not work?
Do you you wish to do the things you want?
Do you desire strongly to have it all?
If you’re like most leaders, you excel at what you do. You are focused, flexible yet disciplined, positive, love having fun and intelligent. You are happy with a wonderful family, a successful organization among the other areas in your life. However, you want your organization to be self sufficient, you want quality time (if not more!) with your family, you want to do the many other things you want. Moreover, you want quality communication with your loved ones, to live life even happier with the ones you care most.
Now, there’s really nothing wrong with you! It’s just what you really need to boost your happiness index to the next level. You see, as leaders, it’s easier to focus on the “doable” things rather than the “people” issues that are very hard to deal with. Everything’s working well for you because you don’t let these issues bother you too much. Not because you don’t care, or you cannot deal with them. Conversely, it’s because you have great inner resources, which you use to solve most of your problems and other people’s problems. Even if you cannot resolve the issue (highly unlikely!), you are able to change your perspective on it, which makes you (and perhaps others) feel better, and happier.
In other words, it is ALL about YOU! How you look at the situation and affect a desired outcome. Now, since the decision to affect everything is within you, you also have the power to have it all.
“You must be the change you wish to see in the world” – Mahatma Gandhi
Let me challenge you with a couple of questions. How can YOU be the change YOU wish to see in YOUR life? How can YOU have it all?
Let me challenge you again with another couple of better questions. How can YOU be the change you wish to see in YOUR life in the FASTEST, EASIEST and BEST way possible? How can YOU have it all in the FASTEST, EASIEST and BEST way possible?
“… You know, when I reached higher managerial positions in my career, I tend to pay less attention to others’ thoughts and feelings, and just focus on getting things done. With Pei Shan coaching me, I am not only a better manager, a better leader. I’m also a better father. Not only do I focus on getting results, I also focus on the inner strengths of my team, my partners and my clients. I listen more and think about how my people think. This translates into a more organised and efficient use and control of time.”
“After coaching with Pei Shan, I see a transformation in myself. I lend people a listening ear, I listen more, especially with my wife and children. We have more family togetherness now. Now I don’t tell them what to do. I ask them questions and listen to them quietly. My children now comes to me, and I listen quietly to their problems. They get their answers from within, with my quiet listening, and my wife is happier with the changes she sees in me.”
- John Lee Chong Ming, Serangoon Gardens, Singapore, Father of three, JL Consulting, Director
There is a solution. You can affect better change and have it all faster and easier. You will definitely be happier, and it doesn’t need to take a lot of time and effort to get quality results. What’s important is to know what you can do with your strengths and potential to affect great change and have it all faster, better and easier.
Find out what you need to do to be happier by affecting great change and having it all.